Real Men Don't Rape

icandolotsofthingsmaster:

bloodyinksexcuddles:

daddydrummer2:

witchlingfumbles:

allthingshyper:

shadowstep-of-bast:

hate-my-human:

secretcallgirl:

kokilax:

randomizeyourmind:

Rape has become endemic in South Africa, so a medical technician named Sonette Ehlers developed a product that immediately gathered national attention there. Ehlers had never forgotten a rape victim telling her forlornly, “If only I had teeth down there.”
Some time afterward, a man came into the hospital where Ehlers works in excruciating pain because his penis was stuck in his pants zipper.
Ehlers merged those images and came up with a product she called Rapex. It resembles a tube, with barbs inside. The woman inserts it like a tampon, with an applicator, and any man who tries to rape the woman impales himself on the barbs and must go to an emergency room to have the Rapex removed.
When critics complained that it was a medieval punishment, Ehlers replied tersely, “A medieval device for a medieval deed.” 
- Half the Sky, Nicholas Kristof

REBLOGGING THIS. x1,000,000,000,000,000,000,000

A medieval device for a medieval deed - yes.

This is perfect

BLESS THIS PERSON

I BOW TO THIS INTENTION

Can we talk about how beautifully this turns rape culture on its head? Instead of “If they weren’t dressed like that they wouldn’t have been raped” THIS IS LITERALLY “IF THEY HADN’T TRIED TO RAPE SOMEONE THEY  WOULDN’T HAVE SPIKES IN THEIR DICK”*

Great ! Love this

I support the existence of this! I really hope this will help!

Show your support for this invention - reblog this! This post needs to hit 1 million. - D and i

Sad that such an invention is needed but apparently, it is in some areas and it might help you to feel safe even if it’s nasty.

icandolotsofthingsmaster:

bloodyinksexcuddles:

daddydrummer2:

witchlingfumbles:

allthingshyper:

shadowstep-of-bast:

hate-my-human:

secretcallgirl:

kokilax:

randomizeyourmind:

Rape has become endemic in South Africa, so a medical technician named Sonette Ehlers developed a product that immediately gathered national attention there. Ehlers had never forgotten a rape victim telling her forlornly, “If only I had teeth down there.

Some time afterward, a man came into the hospital where Ehlers works in excruciating pain because his penis was stuck in his pants zipper.

Ehlers merged those images and came up with a product she called Rapex. It resembles a tube, with barbs inside. The woman inserts it like a tampon, with an applicator, and any man who tries to rape the woman impales himself on the barbs and must go to an emergency room to have the Rapex removed.

When critics complained that it was a medieval punishment, Ehlers replied tersely, “A medieval device for a medieval deed.” 

- Half the Sky, Nicholas Kristof

REBLOGGING THIS. x1,000,000,000,000,000,000,000

A medieval device for a medieval deed - yes.

This is perfect

BLESS THIS PERSON

I BOW TO THIS INTENTION

Can we talk about how beautifully this turns rape culture on its head? Instead of “If they weren’t dressed like that they wouldn’t have been raped” THIS IS LITERALLY “IF THEY HADN’T TRIED TO RAPE SOMEONE THEY  WOULDN’T HAVE SPIKES IN THEIR DICK”*

Great ! Love this

I support the existence of this! I really hope this will help!

Show your support for this invention - reblog this! This post needs to hit 1 million. - D and i

Sad that such an invention is needed but apparently, it is in some areas and it might help you to feel safe even if it’s nasty.

(via butterfly36)

Too many young girls don’t know how to act when someone’s being inappropriate with them. They giggle or they try to brush it off. Don’t do that. Tell them to go fuck themselves - be a bitch. If someone’s being disrespectful to you, be disrespectful right back. Show them the same amount of respect that they show you.

Wise words from my mom (via magicrobotgeography)

Well said, don’t be afraid of that. You have no obligation to stay respectful to someone who offended you. Try to be witty about it but if you just find some inappropriate words, don’t swallow them down. Just be careful should you be alone and he might abuse you physically as well.

(Source: smallfreelancer, via freakin-nasty)

In response to the Steubenville, Ohio teen rape case, West Virginia U.S. Attorney William J. Ihlenfeld is launching a program to teach high school athletes not to post evidence of rape online.

It’s called “Project Future,” and his goal is to teach teens how to avoid getting in trouble with the law by using cell phones, cameras, and social media “responsibly.” Instead of teaching teens not to rape, the U.S. Attorney wants to teach them not to get caught.

This is rape culture at work: The very people who are in charge of enforcing our laws look at a cruel, brutal attack on a young girl and think, “If only the teens hadn’t posted photographic evidence online.”

"Project Future" (via alchemy)

This is what makes me angry, this type of conduct, this bullshit. And they have the nerve to tell us we shouldn’t be angry to just relax they’re teens, like fuck you and you non sense project.

(via suck-my-leg)

These wrong views need to be overcome finally.

(via suckedintothelifeofkpop)

optimuspham:

i hope that someone, somewhere, sees this and is actually affected by it enough to make a change. this is terrible.

Unacceptable.

If you notice anyone around you being abused like this, don’t look away but see how you can help.

(via do--svidaniya)

Ask yourselves, men, do you feel safe on your neighborhood streets? Do you choose where and when you exercise or shop or commute carefully? Do you have parking strategies, like not parking near vans? Do you change several times before deciding on certain clothes, even though you like them? Do you use your keys as a weapon or take other similar measures? Have you considered specialized fighting techniques?

These questions will be familiar to most women, but they don’t really address the most common type of sexual assault: that perpetrated by an acquaintance. Some women are indeed assaulted by strangers, but almost 75% of rapists are known to their victims. The habits we teach girls for avoiding rape reinforce misleading and ultimately dangerous ideas about strangers in alleys. If “don’t get raped” lessons were genuinely meant to help people assess risk and avoid assault, we’d teach girls and boys (because yes, boys and men can be victims of sexual violence too). Instead, these rules reinforce a gender hierarchy dependent on girls being vulnerable and boys being invincible. Teaching girls to constantly modify their behavior in order to avoid stranger rape is a form of social control. And telling girls and women it’s their responsibility to avoid rape doesn’t stop rape, it just perpetuates rape culture.

Five ways that “staying safe” costs women - Salon.com (via w-indigo-vertigo)

Do what you can to make it safe for all of us everywhere. Whenever you see someone abusing someone else, do not be afraid of stopping them or if you risk being molested yourself, to at least call the police.

(via heal------mywoundse69gocrazy)

satanicnoodle:

It’s not about men or women.

Nobody should ever hit anyone.

Nobody should ever rape anyone.

Nobody should ever murder anyone.

Nobody should ever beat anyone.

Nobody should ever threaten anyone.

Nobody should ever insult anyone.

Nobody should ever make anyone uncomfortable.

Nobody should ever touch anyone without their consent.

Nobody should ever steal from anyone.

Nobody should ever humiliate anyone.

Exactly.

(Source: melkorisacrybaby, via petit-chou-chou)

A typical example of a clueless wannabedom. He’s just seen some rough stuff on a movie or on tumblr or wherever and thought “I can do that, too”.
Congrats on your perfect answer! I wish more would have the courage to speak up the way you did.

A typical example of a clueless wannabedom. He’s just seen some rough stuff on a movie or on tumblr or wherever and thought “I can do that, too”.

Congrats on your perfect answer! I wish more would have the courage to speak up the way you did.

(Source: subgirlygirl.com)

Definitely not. There is no excuse for rape whatsoever, it is always the man losing control of himself and no matter how he tries to twist that around, the fact remainst the same.

Definitely not. There is no excuse for rape whatsoever, it is always the man losing control of himself and no matter how he tries to twist that around, the fact remainst the same.

(Source: mssecretary)

M.U.S.E.: Beware "The Groomer"

macross74:

Emotional grooming is primarily a specific use of language where a dominant male preys on the emotional status of another (usually females).

A “groomer” skillfully plays with words, learns to identify what the perceived victim wants to hear, and uses this knowledge, for personal gain, to direct and to keep the focus of her attention exclusively to meeting HIS emotional and physical needs — at the expense of her own.

A groomer takes pleasure in skillfully causing pain to increase his sense of control in keeping her anxiously focused on not upsetting or angering him.

These techniques are used to supress critical thinking, personality and otherwise reasonable rational behavior.

Groomers can position and posture over long periods of time to wait for the right moment of hightened emotional weakness to control thier subject of desire.

Beware the groomer. Seek guidance from and surround yourself with those that encourage critical thinking, appreciate personality, encourage you to be the best version of yourself that you can be.

A great dominant does not break the human spirit, they encourage the spirit to soar.

Very well written, this should be a warning to all the novice subs out there not to be abused by a wannabedom.

Sensuality Unveiled: Collarme Message

tiemeupiamfeisty:

toodomforyou:

I have a pretty basic Collarme account… I’m not on there too often, but I was checking my messages tonight and this is a FABULOUS one that I got…

i’m looking for total domination of ur life….what u’ll wear (when u need to), what u eat, ur job, ur breeding, i’ll need ur…

I’m sorry but I just lost it.. I’m still laughing!! Who would say “of course, anything you want? I will give you my whole life, after all you are only a stranger!”

There are just too many wannabedoms around. Ignore them, be it on collarme, fetlife, tumblr, or wherever and don’t let them make you feel bad because you think it would be rude to not answer. They were rude in the first place.

If it weren’t so sad and disturbing, it would simply be ridiculous. How can anyone call this justice?

If it weren’t so sad and disturbing, it would simply be ridiculous. How can anyone call this justice?

(Source: questionall, via quienesesachica)